US romance scam losses topped $1.14B in a single year (FTC)Total US cybercrime losses hit $16.6B (FBI IC3 2024)Average cost of a data breach: $4.4M (IBM)Roughly 3 in 4 breaches involve the human element (Verizon DBIR)Median romance scam loss: $2,000 per victim (FTC)Business email compromise remains the costliest attack category (FBI IC3)Older adults report the highest total fraud losses (FBI IC3)Most account takeovers start with a reused passwordPhishing is still the number one initial access vectorFeelings meet technology.

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Field notes from the build.

Essays on cybersecurity, leadership, community work, and the personal growth that makes the rest possible.

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The Perfect Man Doesn't Exist — Anatomy of a Romance Scam

Romance scams don't start with money. They start with attention. Here are the stages, the red flags at each one, and what to do if you recognize yourself in this.

Cybersecurity·August 2026·8 min read
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TechnologyJuly 2026

AI Makes You Faster. Fundamentals Make You Dangerous.

The tool amplifies what you already know. It does not replace knowing it. What a decade in security taught me about using AI without hollowing yourself out.

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CybersecurityJune 2026

Google Yourself Like an Attacker: A 15-Minute OSINT Self-Check

Before someone targets you, they look you up. Here's the exact 15-minute pass I run on myself — and how to shut the obvious doors tonight.

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Personal GrowthComing soon

Imposter Syndrome Is a Symptom, Not a Diagnosis

What I learned by mistaking discomfort for inadequacy for almost a decade.

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CommunityComing soon

Why I Built JumpLite Tech

The nonprofit didn't start as a plan. It started as a question I couldn't stop asking.

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LeadershipComing soon

Leading Without a Playbook

Stepping into supervision when there was no one above you who looked like you.

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CommunityComing soon

DEF CON as a Mirror

What conferences reveal about who the industry centers — and who it forgets.

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